Friday, July 6, 2012

Why Have I Been Unfriended on Facebook?



Some people feel devastated when they realize that without a friend on Facebook. They take it personally, feel that they are cut out of the loop, build experience in their minds, as a major humiliation. However, it is often far simpler explanation.

Let's look at some of the reasons why you might be without a friend on Facebook.

Let's look at some of the reasons why you might be without a friend on Facebook.

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- Some people start calling your Facebook experience all that they know their friends. Often starts as a numbers game, wondering where to start, wanting to build a quick database friends, eager to be popular, inviting all know, accepting every friend request they receive.

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- Eventually it becomes clear that there is no limit to the amount of time and interest they want and are able to spend keeping their account updated, reading other people's entries, in response to their messages and updates. Some people close their Facebook accounts, it was taking too much of your time, it becomes too much a distraction from important activities such as work and study. The loss of these friends on Facebook is not about you, but the need for them to prioritize their time better.

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- Rules often becomes an important concern. There are some things that we are happy that everyone knows, are May even want to publish and promote. However, there are often a part of our lives that are not suitable for all to read. Yes, we could in the private messages about personal things in our inner circle, or have more than one Facebook account for the different areas of our lives, but that this may indicate the need to be selective about who we turn on our Facebook.

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- Incoming comments on our Facebook page can sometimes be a matter for concern, especially because all of our contacts can read what other people you are there. I know several people who have closed their accounts on Facebook because of unwanted attention and comments. They have become so hassled by the whole experience that they decided to leave it for a while.

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- Life moves on. There are people who can be good friends for the duration of time in our lives while we are at college, university, working in a particular job, involved in a hobby or interest. If we move from that we can keep the special friendship, but others will be left behind. For some time we spring clean our lives and move on. Unfriending some people on Facebook is often an essential part of the process of transition to the next stage of our lives.

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